21 Days of Awareness - Challenge yourself with this journal!  My experience and time at Soul7.ca CHANGED MY LIFE and I condensed what I learned in this journal.

This journal is designed to help you become aware of your subconscious thoughts and limiting beliefs, and to help guide you into creating a greater awareness of your mental, and emotional wellbeing. Life and sport is a journey, a process. This process will open you up to the life you’ve envisioned, dared to dream, and help you make it your reality - all the while reaching higher performance in both life, and sport. These questions are inspired by my personal work with Craig Manning, author of the ‘Fearless Mind’ and high performance coach (who I personally have worked with for over 4 years), and my time with Neurofit at Soul7.ca with the founder/owner Bob Berman. - Angela Naeth, professional triathlete, coach and founder of iracelikeagirl.com

PURCHASE ON AMAZON

PERIOD. 

Real talk. Real life. I get my period monthly. I have PMS, monthly. I have days I’m fatigued, and the world seems to be ending. It’s almost like I’m drugged. I’m not rational. The days leading into my period, I become more irritable and frustrated at minor things. I could cry watching re-runs of 50 First Dates. I get the body changes - enlarged breasts (for me, that’s noticeable!), water retention, and bloat.  I become tired and annoyed at things that I usually don’t care about. A dirty dish in the sink, ruffled bed… it’s nonsense I would be concerned with minute issues.  I know in the back of my head it’s PMS, but it’s almost as if my rational brain is *slightly fogged.  On top of this,  I often find typical workouts harder, power is low, I have low motivation, and become a little irritable at harder efforts.  It’s only when the hormones change, my period starts, I can see the light. 

Day 1 of my period, I’m back to being Wonder Woman.  My energy is hard to contain, and I can do intervals like nobody’s business. The next few days I hit the workouts with a new vengeance, and usually hit my highest wattages on a bike in a month. I am dumbfounded - what the hell was wrong with me, yesterday?? All is well in the world again. 

Ah, the joys of being female!  Most women can relate to the above.  Our hormones change how we feel both on a physical, and an emotional level.  I have to be honest though, after all the research, using a phone app to follow my cycle (best thing I ever did), it still hits me by surprise.

Truth be told, more often than not, my boyfriend knows it’s coming before I do.  My boyfriend is also my coach (not that, that matters). He not only sees patterns in my workouts (my comments from workouts, lower pain tolerance; lack of power), but he lives with me, and notices my mood change, and fatigue levels.  My last cycle, we were hundreds of miles away from one another. I was frustrated at something, and was finding it difficult to get on my bike.  He called me, and asked, “when are you getting your period?”  I opened my phone, checked my app, it was not for another 10 days. “Well, perhaps it’s coming earlier this month.”  Ha! I told him no, I have been on a 28-day cycle for the last 9 months.  

Two days later, I got my period.  It blew my mind! Am I that blinded by my own reactions and actions, that my boyfriend (who was hundreds of miles away!) can read my body better, than I can?  We laughed.*

*NOTE: I do realize that many women may not enjoy having their boyfriend/spouse/significant other calling them out on PMSing, but I do!  I want full communication and understanding in my relationships.  If he is able to see that I'm irritable, emotional, tired, and help me become aware of it, I want to know. NEVER does he use it against me, nor does he use it in arguments, or says it to piss me off. It’s more of a suggestion as to why I feel so crappy.  If it was for one of the latter reasons, and him asking me made we want to punch him in the face, well
1) I would punch him in the face, and,
2) I probably wouldn’t be dating him. :-)    

So, why are we (or perhaps just me), so hazy on what’s going on with our own bodies?  Are we just trying to cope with the change in hormones?  Perhaps.  For the last two years, I have been using a phone app to document when my period starts, ends, and future cycles. For 12 months of this, I had an IUD.  The latter 12 months, I have used no birth control. I’ve read peer reviews, articles, and books on the topic.  I have raced, trained, and documented what happens to me monthly - physically, mentally, and emotionally.  I’m a study of “one” but, I’m  certain what happens to me, happens to all women, to some degree. 

The Menstrual Cycle

Not to go into depth here, but I feel it best to provide a general sense of the different stages of our hormonal cycle.  

Follicular Phase (typically days 1-14):  Menstruation. A typical period lasts 4-7 days. Estrogen and Progesterone levels have dropped. After your period, estrogen slowly begins to ramp up.  

Luteal Phase (typically day 14-28):  Ovulation. Primed to have a baby.  Progesterone levels rise. Estrogen and progesterone are both high in this phase of the cycle.    

(More info on what our hormones do at the end of this article) 

Recommendations for Training with Your Menstrual Cycle: Work With it, Not Against it.  

I have raced pre-period, during my period, and all days in between, in the last 10 years.  I have had great performances when my body most otherwise says, it shouldn’t.  I go into each race with a mindset of “Let’s see what I’ve got!”,  and focus on mental cues of being strong, letting the day unfold as it may.  Racing (and in training), is about not hoping for the best day, but learning how to deal with whatever comes your way, and making the most of it. 

Below are some tips/tricks I’ve used, and have researched/found to be useful as an athlete, and my performance. This is my personal experience, a fierce one at that! :)  Do understand, no two people are the same, and no two cycles are either.  I recommend doing as I did,  documenting over time how you feel throughout each cycle, and getting to know your own body.

Power of your Period: 

In the follicular phase (during your period, and first 14 days of your cycle - see below for more info on the menstrual cycle), I have higher energy, and pain tolerance levels.  I tend to recover faster and am ready for almost every workout.   It’s a great time for me to push more intensity in my training.    As I get closer to ovulation and into the next phase of my cycle (day 14-28), I tend to slowly feel changes until I’m pre-menstrual - where I most definitely am more fatigued, irritable, bloated and find it hard to handle heat.  All of this can be explained by our changing hormone levels.   

Consider your Menstrual Cycling when you Look at your Program/Training Plan. 

• Listen to your body. Usually exercise helps with menstrual cramps/symptoms.  If it’s difficult, consider easing into the workout, and/or going easier until you feel good.  The body knows best. Consider more aerobic training before your period, and more high-intensity workouts after your period. Use your period to your advantage. 
• Get a Menstrual App on your phone. Document your period for many months to see how you respond to your cycle and to potentially document when you will get your cycle in the future.  There are several Apps on the market. I currently use: Period Tracker. I use the free version. It has been very helpful in seeing when my period will potentially be, and what I need to prepare mentally for (if for instance, pre-menstrual days fall on a race day) 
• Consider a day off.  Even with the app I have. We schedule as we would, and  adjust daily, as needed. That’s the only way. I have some months PMS affects me so greatly, while others, it doesn’t.  Overall though, I can bet at least one day of complete and utter fatigue. 
• According to a Swedish study, you can gain more muscle mass by training during the first weeks of the menstrual cycle, from the beginning of your menstruation until ovulation (See worthy Reads/Articles for source). Use this to your advantage in your training with higher intensity training, and efforts.   
• Find a coach (if you have one), that you can be 100% open with about your cycle. Hormonal changes affect you as an athlete and he/she should be well-versed in this area.  If you feel uncomfortable, and/or you coach doesn’t understand these issues, I highly recommend looking at this.  It can only help you as an athlete to be able to be open and communicative with your coach. If you’re a female athlete working with a male coach or any coach for that matter, this conversation should be a common one. 

Nutrition and your Cycle: 

Pre-period: (high hormone phase; luteal phase; latter days of days 14-28 in your cycle):  Your hormones are somewhat working against you. 

• Take in a few extra carbohydrates to help with performance/training. 
• Be diligent on your post-workout protein and carbohydrate intake. Recovery drinks are key here. 
• Increase your fluid intake. Be diligent in your hydration and sweat loss. Add more sodium and electrolytes/fluids during this phase of your cycle.
• you can pre-load workouts with sodium and other electrolytes.  
• Beets and other foods high in arginine can help thin the blood

During your period:  

Increasing your magnesium, and iron levels have been helpful.  I personally make sure to eat more red meat, and leafy greens during this time. Loose bowels (from prostaglandins during this time) is common.  Magnesium glycerinate is best absorbed.  Consider a supplement. 

Race Day:

Luckily for us we have 12 months a year to learn how we react to our period (even if it hits you as a surprise every time!).  The best time for a great race performance is during the follicular phase (during your period and the days after). Bleeding is not convenient but if I had to choose when to get my period it would be the days leading into race and/or even race day.  Mind you, we don’t have that ability (unless by use of contraceptives - more on that, below), so I try to optimize my body the best I can (with the tips above for nutrition/rest leading into a race).   If you happen to have your period on race day, by best tips is to be prepared - mentally and physically. If you have cramps/bloating, consider looking at what helped you in previous cycles. For me, I usually take some Advil, and have it in special needs.  I put extra tampons in all my transition bags. But truth be told, most often, I don’t typically worry.  If I bleed, I bleed. I’m racing, and that’s the least of my concerns (I know this is not the mindset of many, so having extra tampons is a must!).   

Pay attention to how your body responds through you’re app, or in your general training diary. Keeping track can help you understand in advance how you will feel, what you might expect, and you can then make plan of action when symptoms hit during a race, or lead up into one.  

To note, I continue to learn new things on how my body responds to the hormonal changes of my cycle. and how I can get the most of myself, training and racing.  And yes, my boyfriend has been part of this. I have learned to laugh when he asks, “is it almost your period?” and understand, he might just see something I don’t.  Communication is key. Trust yourself, and trust those close to you.  Being female is anything but straight forward. ;) 

MORE INFORMATION: 

What do our hormones do? 

Hormone levels change how we metabolize carbohydrates, fat and protein, how we regulate heat, changes our blood plasma levels (fluid in our blood), among many other processes going on in the body.  As a female we are effected by our changing estrogen and progesterone levels. To keep things on a basic level we will focus on these (please see sources below for more in depth reading).  When estrogen is high, women tend to utilize more fat as fuel, and conserve glycogen (form of carbohydrates). This can lead to more difficulty in higher intensity training. Progesterone also promotes the break down of protein.  When high (luteal phase), protein is critical for recovery. 

Plasma volume (volume of fluid in our blood) is related to our sodium and potassium levels (electrolytes). When our hormones are high (again, the luteal phase), our blood volume drops creating thicker blood, which can lower performance.  Progesterone increases sodium loss, and also elevates our core temperature.  This can effect your training/performance by causing earlier fatigue, decreased performance, and lower your heat tolerance. One hormone I haven’t talked about is prostaglandins. In the first days of your cycle, you may have loose stools because of it’s effects of muscle stimulation during this time. 

Missing your Period, the Use of Oral Contraceptives, Pregnancy and Menopause. 

Having your period is a sign of healthy hormonal balance and should be worth noting to have.  If you don’t get your period (either from the use of possible hormonal IDU, or other contraceptives, and/or low body fat percentage), it may be something to discuss with your doctor, and to consider yourself.  I know many professional women who get their cycle regularly (I’m one of them!) and some that struggle to get it without the use of contraceptives.  A healthy woman has a period, period.  If you’re not getting it (and you’re not using a hormonal IUD or other), it’s a sign that stress may be too high, you not eating enough, and it should be a RED FLAG.  Lack of having a period can also be a sign of overtraining, and hormonal imbalance. Use your period as a sign of health and vitality.  

Oral Contraceptives. There are side effects to these and I would definitely consult with your doctor on these. Oral contraceptives increase your hormone levels and you can consider yourself always in a higher hormonal phase (the time in the cycle we generally don’t perform as well).  I have personally used these in the past, and as mentioned, I also had an IUD. I didn’t like being on oral contraceptives because of this exact feeling. I felt my pre-menstrual symptom increased and lasted longer.  This may not be the case for everyone.  As much as I loved not having a period when I had the IUD (the hormonal ones generally take away your period because of the constant levels of progesterone); I found that after not being on it, I had more fire and vitality.  It’s definitely something to look at and consider the pros and cons of consult with a doctor you trust. 

Many athletes have training and raced while pregnant or going through menopause.  The best source I have found for details in this is Stacy Sims and Selene Yeager’s book: ROAR goes into detail on pregnancy and menopause.  

I have heard some athletes using oral contraceptives to alter their cycle for a big competition in the future. I have not done this personally so I can’t comment. I would highly recommend going to a doctor that is well-versed in doing so, if this is something you are considering. 

Worthy Reads/Podcasts/Articles/Sources:  

*A more detailed description of the menstrual cycle can be found here: https://www.womenshealth.gov/menstrual-cycle/your-menstrual-cycle 

https://www.womenshealthmag.com/health/a19969931/exercise-during-periods/

http://sciencenordic.com/your-period-makes-you-train-more-effectively

https://www.trispecific.com/fb-277-menstruation-matters-with-tiana-rockwell/

https://sports.vice.com/en_us/article/kbdbwm/for-elite-athletes-periods-are-still-a-question-mark

BOOK: ROAR: How to Match Your Food and Fitness to Your Unique Female Physiology for Optimum Performance, Great Health, and a Strong, Lean Body for Life by: Stacy Sims and Selene Yeager 

]]> http://iracelikeagirl.aspiresoft.com/angela-s-blog-updates/period-how-to-work-with-your-menstrual-cycle-/ urn:blogs:1266679912 Fri, 02 Feb 2018 15:14:00 -0500 I write this feeling both heart-broken, and blessed. Jim Brewer, my homestay from IRONMAN Chattanooga, passed away on February1, 2018. He was a man I met, a stranger, who soon became a dear friend. This was all thru the IRONMAN Homestay program - a program where IRONMAN helps professionals find places to stay, while competing at their events. This is a tribute to this man, who touched many lives, and truly embodied the kindred spirit of IRONMAN. In the last 4 years, Jim and Sandra Brewer have opened up their home to almost a dozen professionals in Chattanooga, TN. I would have never had the chance to meet such a great soul without racing the inaugural IRONMAN, in 2014. I was Jim’s first homestay athlete. We conversed a little over emails and text, before I met him. Right away, he made me feel at home, and I had a few friends that were also racing that needed a place. I asked him if he had some extra room, and he quickly replied, ‘Hell Yeah!’ - a phrase I would learn, shortly after meeting him, that epitomized his soul, and life. I was there for a week, spoiled no less, with food, good company, and laughs. Little did I know, Jim was a very social man who invited the entire neighborhood for backyard BBQs almost every weekend. They had a very close knit group of friends that celebrated life. And to have the IRONMAN in their home town, everyone joined in on the fun. It’s a week of my life I’ll never forget. And it’s been like that year after year, race after race. And recently, I was just conversing with Jim about planning my return trip to Chattanooga for this year’s 70.3. He already had three rooms filled, and my private room and bath, had my name on it. ;) We’ve stayed connected over the years, meeting up where we could. Last I saw him in person was this past August when I passed thru Chattanooga, to help with a Red Bull Women’s event I was hosting. He surprised me by being down at the buffet breakfast, the only morning I had there. That was Jim, he just made things happen, and always with love and an addictive smile. When he found out I was going thru divorce, he reached out to me. He supported me. He gave me advice. He was there for me. If you venture over to his Facebook page, it’s filled with pictures and pictures of friends, family, and every athlete that stayed at his house. I truly can’t say enough about Jim. He is a man who truly gave life to those around him. Jim Brewer passed away from a fall that left him with some medical complications. He was on life-support for over a week, and his wife, Sandra, and good friend, Ju-Hsin (neighbor) reached out to me. I was lucky and fortunate to be able to say some last words that were relayed to Jim while he was in the ICU. The night Ju-Hsin and Sandra did this for me, I received a video-phone call from them. On the other line, was Jim. He wasn’t able to open his eyes or speak, but he acknowledged my voice, my words, and gave me a kiss, and a smile. We both cried. I will forever have this man in my heart. I want to share the words I said to him - as it embodies how much he meant to me, and the athletes he connected with over the years. He truly supported and loved IRONMAN in his city, and was one of the biggest, if not THE biggest supporter of the event. He loved sharing the week, and celebration of the races. “I love you Jim. You have given me memories that I cherish. In all my years I’ve done this sport there’s one time that truly sticks out - my time I spent with you, and your family during my first IRONMAN win. Your love, vulnerability, and support for me at that finish line, is my favorite memory I’ve had in my career, my favorite feeling of all time. You were a man, whom I only knew for a mere 3 days and you gave me the deepest, most sincere hug of support and care I’ve ever had. I remember getting up every morning, early, and you were up. We’d talk like old friends and I loved it. I’ll never forget how much support and love I felt from you since the day we met - from a complete stranger at the time, no less. The morning of that race, you were up and ready to roll, and had the music blazing in the car. I was sitting in the front seat, and you and I were laughing, and smiling. I remember the top was down, and you were just as excited as we all were for the race to start. The entire race - you were there, and poured your heart out to me that day. You had the entire community cheering for us, and I remember running past you guys with such big smiles, and love. You raced to get to the finish line - where I will never forget the feeling and moment I had with you. It was a true embrace of joy and care. It reached my core. We were both crying and I’ve never felt such vulnerability and joy from someone I knew for such little time. I will forever cherish that. And for the rest of my life, I’m living with the words you said often for everything, ’Hell yeah!’. You give such meaning to this phrase for me, and since the first day we met at the airport, I was in love with your joy, and way of being. You live by these words, and I hope to do the same. These two words. ‘Hell Yeah!” I’m reminded daily - enjoy life, it’s now or never, live for the moments, and cherish those to you close. You’re a beautiful soul, Jim. I love you. - Angela “ And to this, I truly have to thank IRONMAN. This is one of the reasons I love this sport - the connection of community, athletes and individuals like Jim Brewer. Jim was never an IRONMAN - heck, I don’t think he even rode a bike in the last 30 years of his life! However, he supported each of us who stayed in his home, and embraced our goals like they were his own. His finish-line tears and hug, were truly indicative of who he was, and how much he gave to all of us. I’ve been involved with homestay’s thru IRONMAN since I started the sport. When this adventure of triathlon racing as my career began, I barely had enough money to train full-time. Homestay’s helped me survive, and race. I’ve made friends across the globe (Andrea from St. Croix, Bill from New Hampshire, Hud and Sandra from Galveston, to name a few). It’s a core reason and desire of why I created iracelikeagirl - a women’s endurance community. We connect, share, and support one another in our lives. This sport changes lives. Ironman brings communities together, people together, and friendships that last a life time.  While Jim is gone, I’m blessed to have the opportunity to have had him as a part of my life.

I write this feeling both heart-broken, and blessed. Jim Brewer, my homestay
from IRONMAN Chattanooga, passed away on February1, 2018. He was a man I
met, a stranger, who soon became a dear friend. This was all thru the IRONMAN
Homestay program - a program where IRONMAN helps professionals find places
to stay, while competing at their events.

This is a tribute to this man, who touched many lives, and truly embodied the
kindred spirit of IRONMAN. In the last 4 years, Jim and Sandra Brewer have
opened up their home to almost a dozen professionals in Chattanooga, TN. I
would have never had the chance to meet such a great soul without racing the
inaugural IRONMAN, in 2014.

I was Jim’s first homestay athlete. We conversed a little over emails and text,
before I met him. Right away, he made me feel at home, and I had a few friends
that were also racing that needed a place. I asked him if he had some extra
room, and he quickly replied, ‘Hell Yeah!’ - a phrase I would learn, shortly after
meeting him, that epitomized his soul, and life.

I was there for a week, spoiled no less, with food, good company, and laughs.
Little did I know, Jim was a very social man who invited the entire neighborhood
for backyard BBQs almost every weekend. They had a very close knit group of
friends that celebrated life. And to have the IRONMAN in their home town,
everyone joined in on the fun. It’s a week of my life I’ll never forget.

And it’s been like that year after year, race after race. And recently, I was just
conversing with Jim about planning my return trip to Chattanooga for this year’s
70.3. He already had three rooms filled, and my private room and bath, had my
name on it. ;) We’ve stayed connected over the years, meeting up where we
could.

Last I saw him in person was this past August when I passed thru
Chattanooga, to help with a Red Bull Women’s event I was hosting. He surprised
me by being down at the buffet breakfast, the only morning I had there. That was
Jim, he just made things happen, and always with love and an addictive smile.
When he found out I was going thru divorce, he reached out to me. He
supported me. He gave me advice. He was there for me. If you venture over to
his Facebook page, it’s filled with pictures and pictures of friends, family, and
every athlete that stayed at his house. I truly can’t say enough about Jim. He is a
man who truly gave life to those around him.

Jim Brewer passed away from a fall that left him with some medical
complications. He was on life-support for over a week, and his wife, Sandra, and
good friend, Ju-Hsin (neighbor) reached out to me. I was lucky and fortunate to
be able to say some last words that were relayed to Jim while he was in the ICU.
The night Ju-Hsin and Sandra did this for me, I received a video-phone call from
them. On the other line, was Jim. He wasn’t able to open his eyes or speak, but
he acknowledged my voice, my words, and gave me a kiss, and a smile. We both
cried. I will forever have this man in my heart.

I want to share the words I said to him - as it embodies how much he meant to
me, and the athletes he connected with over the years. He truly supported and
loved IRONMAN in his city, and was one of the biggest, if not THE biggest
supporter of the event. He loved sharing the week, and celebration of the races.

“I love you Jim. You have given me memories that I cherish. In all my years I’ve
done this sport there’s one time that truly sticks out - my time I spent with you,
and your family during my first IRONMAN win. Your love, vulnerability, and
support for me at that finish line, is my favorite memory I’ve had in my career, my
favorite feeling of all time. You were a man, whom I only knew for a mere 3
days and you gave me the deepest, most sincere hug of support and care I’ve
ever had. I remember getting up every morning, early, and you were up. We’d
talk like old friends and I loved it. I’ll never forget how much support and love I
felt from you since the day we met - from a complete stranger at the time, no
less.

The morning of that race, you were up and ready to roll, and had the music
blazing in the car. I was sitting in the front seat, and you and I were laughing, and
smiling. I remember the top was down, and you were just as excited as we all
were for the race to start. The entire race - you were there, and poured your
heart out to me that day. You had the entire community cheering for us, and I
remember running past you guys with such big smiles, and love. You raced to
get to the finish line - where I will never forget the feeling and moment I had with
you. It was a true embrace of joy and care. It reached my core. We were both
crying and I’ve never felt such vulnerability and joy from someone I knew for
such little time. I will forever cherish that.

And for the rest of my life, I’m living with the words you said often for everything,
’Hell yeah!’. You give such meaning to this phrase for me, and since the first day
we met at the airport, I was in love with your joy, and way of being. You live by
these words, and I hope to do the same. These two words. ‘Hell Yeah!” I’m
reminded daily - enjoy life, it’s now or never, live for the moments, and cherish
those to you close. You’re a beautiful soul, Jim. I love you. - Angela “

And to this, I truly have to thank IRONMAN. This is one of the reasons I love this
sport - the connection of community, athletes and individuals like Jim Brewer.
Jim was never an IRONMAN - heck, I don’t think he even rode a bike in the last
30 years of his life! However, he supported each of us who stayed in his home,
and embraced our goals like they were his own. His finish-line tears and hug,
were truly indicative of who he was, and how much he gave to all of us.

I’ve been involved with homestay’s thru IRONMAN since I started the sport.
When this adventure of triathlon racing as my career began, I barely had enough
money to train full-time. Homestay’s helped me survive, and race. I’ve made
friends across the globe (Andrea from St. Croix, Bill from New Hampshire, Hud
and Sandra from Galveston, to name a few). It’s a core reason and desire of
why I created iracelikeagirl - a women’s endurance community. We connect,
share, and support one another in our lives.

This sport changes lives. Ironman brings communities together, people together,
and friendships that last a life time.  While Jim is gone, I’m blessed to have the
opportunity to have had him as a part of my life.